A Chinese saying that goes “Nurture boy in a cruel situation and girl in a rich environment”. Traditional Chinese believe that man should be the pillar of the family, so they think that you shouldn’t spoil boys too much, and let them learn to be independent and responsible as early as possible. But girls are destined to be the member of other family when they grow up. So if you have a girl, just provide them a very good environment, then they can grow to be graceful and beautiful to add the attraction of themselves, then they can marry a good guy in the future. And know how to enjoy the life and make the life comfortable and smooth.